Yesterday, a couple of my friends & I held a weight loss intervention for a close friend of ours! She just got dumped by a sleaze ball & she has been indulging herself with food to mask the pain. It has been a month already & she has put on so much weight & she don't care! Enough is enough, she shouldn't be harming herself because of one ungrateful guy.
We sat her down & talk to her. After like 10 mins she said OK & walk off & sent us the above image! What should we do ??? Hope she'll snap out of this asap! I seriously cant bear to see her like this !
It's funny- the image I mean !
ReplyDeleteMaybe she's still hurting & cant deal with 2 things in a row. Some people just need more space & time. I'm sure she appreciate friends like you guys. Just be there for her when the time comes.
Mel
Hi Mel ,thanks. Make sense :))
DeleteWhat happened to your friend now ?
ReplyDeleteSame thing happens to my bestie & she did the same thing, kept eating & buying nonsense & drinking !
Very worry for her.
Britt
Hi Britt,
DeleteSorry to hear about your bestie. My friend is much better now. The first month was tough for her.
But the job helps. That kept her busy & another friend (male) who has been interested in her since day one, is by her side almost everyday now, giving her the attention & support she needs.
We, her girl friends fill in when we can :))
So she's getting on much better.... thank God.
Also she has quickly lose all the weight she gain, as the 'new guy' 's attention is making her feel desirable again :))
Some people lose weight after break-up, sad & cant eat :((
ReplyDeleteLike they said, every cloud has a silver lining:)
DeleteFocus on the positive!
I was putting on so much weight due to bad eating habits. Eventually a close friend 'talk' to me, she's very subtle about it & it didn't embarrass me too much.
ReplyDeleteLong story short, I took her advise. Cut out all snacks & junk, exercise, took a month of panbesy. Now 3 months & 5kg lighter, I feel so much better & look like a 100% prettier.
I've my friend to thank for this. So ladies if a friend 'talk' to you about your problem, whether it's harsh or subtle, they only meant well. In the end, it's for your good. Take the advise!